In a recent episode of my podcast, I had the incredible opportunity to host Maybe Burke, an artist and advocate whose work has significantly impacted the transgender and non-binary communities, not to mention me personally. Allie and I found Maybe to be an incredible guide during our coming out journey, and I was grateful to have the opportunity to share her impact on my life. Our discussion delved deep into the nuances of identity, representation, and the power of visibility, leaving me with profound insights and renewed inspiration as I am sure it will with you as well.

Embracing Identity Through Storytelling

Maybe’s journey is a compelling reminder of how personal stories can challenge societal norms and foster understanding and are often easier to connect on than your standard educational training seminar. During our conversation she shared experiences from her early days in theater, emphasizing how these formative years sparked her passion for advocacy. Maybe’s narrative is not just her own but a mirror reflecting the struggles and triumphs of a community often sidelined. This conversation underscored the importance of storytelling as a tool for education and change, highlighting how Maybe uses her platform to advocate for broader visibility and acceptance.

The Role of Education in Advocacy

Maybe discussed the critical role of education in her advocacy work, particularly how she uses her experiences to educate others about gender diversity and inclusion. She describes her approach to workshops and seminars (that she conducts in corporations, organizations, so if you’re an academic institution – call her!), which are designed to inform and engage participants in meaningful ways to fosters an environment where individuals are encouraged to question, understand, and embrace diverse identities. Her educational initiatives illustrate a profound commitment to transforming spaces into inclusive environments for all.

Impactful Moments of Change

One of the most impactful aspects of our conversation was Maybe’s reflection on specific pivotal moments in her advocacy journey. These instances, whether they were breakthroughs or setbacks, have not only shaped her path but have also highlighted the ongoing need for persistence in the face of adversity. Maybe’s resilience and dedication are palpable, serving as a beacon for others navigating their paths in advocacy and self-expression. I know for myself, I constantly went back to her content to help me as I was navigating being an ally and then awakening to my own life experiences as a trans person.

Reflecting on Our Dialogue

Speaking with Maybe Burke was an enlightening experience that reinforced the necessity of having open dialogues about complex issues like gender identity and societal norms so that they aren’t so difficult to talk about. Her insights consistently encourage me to reflect on how I can better support visibility and change within my own spheres of influence.

This podcast episode, enriched with Maybe’s profound insights and experiences, serves as a reminder of the transformative power of embracing one’s truth and the impact of sharing that truth with the world. It’s not easy, and you lose friends and family members along the way when you shed the norms that you were conditioned into. Other relationships become deeper and more meaningful, but it always helps to have a guide along the way.

For those looking to explore more about Maybe Burke and her work, I highly recommend visiting her website and engaging with her resources to understand the depth of her contributions to advocacy and education.

About Maybe

Maybe Burke (she/her) is an award winning artist, educator, author, and public speaker with over a decade of experience changing and opening minds through storytelling. She is interested in telling the stories that haven’t been told, and passionate about helping people unlearn the ways they’ve been taught to think. Maybe is one of the co-authors of I ❤️ Orgasms, the latest gender expansive sex ed book on pleasure and intimacy. Her solo show, Love Letters to Nobody, earned her the Fresh Fruit Spirit Award for Fostering Pride, Survival, History, and Progress As an actor, Maybe has been seen on Netflix, Hulu, and Comedy Central. As an educator, Maybe has spoken and facilitated identity-based education across the country and internationally. This work has taken her from BroadwayCon to TEDx, from small non-profits to large corporations, and she now offers independent coaching services. maybeburke.com @believeinmaybe

By Minessa

With over 20 years of experience, Minessa Konecky has worked with small startups and hospital systems and academic centers in managing a variety of Federal, private and industry awards. They are comfortable with the entire life cycle of awards and have worked with investigators to secure and extend their research funding. They see themselves as the facilitators of the research business enterprise, and approach all solutions from that lens. Their passion is helping people find joy and fulfillment in their work using a human-centric approach to efficiency and optimization. They host of the Stop Shoulding All Over Yourself Podcast, and hold the position of Research Administration Process Improvement and Training Director at the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center. Minessa takes great pride in their desi heritage and being a member of the LGBTQIA+ community. They live in their seaside cottage on unceded and occupied lands of the Wampanoag and Pokanoket people in Plymouth, MA with 3 dogs and their partner, Alex.